BiTtErNesS
the biting nature of a complex emotion
Bitterness anchors in the heart and lies in wait on the end of the tongue.
In Great Marriage, take bitterness seriously. Do not make the mistake of ignoring it.
When you hear it, take note and communicate about its origin.
When you find it leaving your lips, pause and spend time in prayer. Pay attention to what has you embittered. If you don’t know, ask the Holy Spriit to help you find the answer. Even if you do know, probably a good idea to talk to Him first.
If unattended, bitterness will sour years of life. It will wreck your love story. It will mess with your walk with Jesus. It will spoil the abundant life God has planned for you.
Bitterness in the heart, comes from somewhere. It has an origin. Most likely, some point of pain or place of fear. Resentment and regret are also prime suspects. Regardless, bitterness didn’t just appear on its own one day. Bitterness is a result of something, and its complex nature can be confusing. If it’s in the living room of your heart, be proactive with addressing it. Do the work; everyone (including you) will benefit.
Bitter words carry a bite. In Great Marriage, do not bite your spouse. And don’t let them bite you.
Blessings,
Jo
No amount of word sugar on a word wound will undo the damage of bitter words.
