Christmastime
Issue #0082
The Holiday Schedule can be a source for much discussion in marriage. Whether this is your first year or the fortieth, the ins and outs of budget and buying, social commitments, tasks, family plans, and expectations can be a prime subject, and one is that tricky to navigate. There just seems to be so much to consider. I often remark that Christmastime has its own unique pace and priority. And Christmastime, seems to be starting earlier with each passing year. John and I were on a quest to find new lights for the tree last weekend, and there were none to be found. The shelves were mostly empty on the first full weekend of December.
In Great Marriage, couples communicate more (not less) about all the wonderful complexity of Christmastime. Regardless of tradition, it’s healthy to have open, clarifying discussions about plans, budget, expectations, etc. All the things that not only matter, but also have the potential for conflict or relational stress.
In Great Marriage, the couple works together to navigate all the wonderful extras of Christmastime and stay on the same page with decisions and choices.
