Wide Awake @ 3:00a.m.

Knotted. Entangled. Stressed. Exhausted. Chaotic. Overwhelmed.

These are the types of adjectives used to describe how couples feel when facing a complex, complicated situation.

Too Much. Too Bad. Too Big. Too Stupid. Too Messy. Too Unbearable.

These are the types of adjectives used to describe how couples see or view a complex, complicated situation.

All these types of adjectives will find their way into your thinking and keep you up at night. Further, they can shortchange your patience, fuel your anger, and leave you feeling alone. Ignored, they can suck the hope and peace right out of the bone marrow in your marriage.

In counseling, this is where we begin…